BEHAVIORAL TRAINING:

Simple steps to promote independence and help your dog overcome separation anxiety

Before Leaving

Ignore your dog until he is quiet and relaxed, then interact on your own initiative

Note: You may not realize it, but even eye contact can be rewarding to a dog seeking attention. Interact with your dog only when he is quiet, thus rewarding his calm behavior.

Do not reprimand your dog for destructive behavior or for urinating or defecating in the house

Note: No matter what you find when you come home, remember that your dog could not control himself when you were away. Punishment will not help, and will only increase his anxiety

Interact with your dog only at your initiative and when the dog is relaxed

Note: Again, show your dog that you like to play with him when he's calm and relaxed. To encourage independence, avoid constant physical contact with your dog. Encourage him to lie down near you, but not in contact with you.

Teach your dog to stay calm as you move away, gradually increase distance and time away

Note: Teach your dog to be alone, little by little. Have him sit or lie down and stay in place as you back away, praising his calm behavior. Gradually increase your distance and time away, to help him become more independent, and cope with being alone.

Put your coat on or play with your keys at times other than departure

Note: Certain cues tell your dog that you're getting ready to leave. When he sees these he begins to panic. This technique will help him become indifferent to those cues.